For Azeri girls, every action is judged. A girl who is seen talking to a boy is labeled "yüngül" (light/easy). A girl who has a secret relationship and gets caught is "biabır" (disgraced). This disparity breeds deep resentment. In anonymous online forums and Telegram groups—some with thousands of members—Azeri girls vent about the hypocrisy of their brothers who date freely but would kill a man who looked at their sister.